Not too long ago, there was a group of photos that were on the internet.

On Nanchang Subway Line 2, a weary father slept on a young daughter. The little girl was not noisy and noisy. He changed into a small jacket and took advantage of his sleeping father. He also comforted the sleeping father from time to time.

This screen made a lot of users move, the reason: First, men are very tired, and second, the little girl is very warm, which just poked everyone’s tears.

Who is not as tired and living like a father and alive, who does not want to have such a small jacket to warm.

A while ago, ZTE programmers in their forties were very embarrassed to jump. Many people have expressed their emotions. Now people are too tired to live, and people are not as good as middle-aged dogs.

Life is hard, hard work is hard, but why do we have to work hard?

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Why do you work so hard?

Give everyone a real story first.
Lao Chen is from the countryside in Shandong Province. The conditions are not good at home. There is a younger brother and sister below. After graduating at the age of fifteen or sixteen, the junior high school will work hard, go to many places, change several jobs, and later take root in Shenzhen. , about ten years ago.

Now he runs a logistics company, runs transportation, has small achievements in his career, and has an annual income of nearly one million.

Lao Chen said that a person’s life outside is very bitter. He used to sleep in the road when he was too poor, and he asked people to discuss lunch boxes. The reasons for moving the goods all year round, the skin on his hands retreated one after another.

I asked him, what is the greatest feeling of being rich now?

He said that I used to go home to visit friends and relatives during the New Year, and to form air on the table. This is true from childhood to memory; but now when I go home, the people in the village are not only kind to me but also to my parents. People are quite realistic.

When you were young, people around you would treat you based on your parents’ income; when you grow up, people around you will treat your family based on your income.

This is a naked reality society, as Duan Zi said:

When I had no money before, I always thought that when I had money, I could find my own love. I could make my parents happy and my friends would respect. Later I was really rich. I found that it was true.

Talking about money is not a matter of culture or failure. On the contrary, if you have money, you can choose to live your life because you have the right to choose.

I work so hard today to live a life of willfulness and to live according to my wishes.

When you want to buy a house, you can choose to buy a big three or a small two, instead of buying only two.

Some people say that even if I don’t work hard, I’m able to live my life as a multiple-choice question.

It is natural. Of course, you can choose to let your children read ordinary schools and use ordinary things. Or you can choose to keep the aging parents still working hard for you. You can choose to let your lover buy only when you are discounted…

This is also a kind of living method, but you have lost the capital to choose a better life because you are not going to do it.

There is a saying that goes into the hearts of many people: I don’t know what life is about, and I don’t know how to dream and insist on it. I just want my family to live a better life and allow myself to live in more ways.

This should be the answer to the most realistic and grounded effort.

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I keep you raised, you don’t have to give me pension

According to this photo of the father and daughter on the Nanchang subway, someone gave him a very warm heart: You raised me and I stay with you.

It’s very warm and the picture is beautiful, but my more beautiful picture is: I keep you up, but you don’t need to give me pension.

One day, we are old and the children are big. We can live the life we want, go the path we want to go, and do what we like. We don’t have to give up in order to take care of us. We dare not go after chasing distant places.

If he needs to leave home for many years for his own beliefs and dreams, and he can’t send money to his family, it doesn’t matter. If you go and parents don’t need you to be old, you just have to live happily and live meaningfully.

We can care about each other, but don’t be a burden to each other.

Chinese people have the idea of raising children and preventing old age, but now it is time to change. Beginning with our generation, we have let go of our children and we have spared ourselves so that they can truly fly out and let them truly enjoy their old age.

All this is based on a certain economic foundation, so we need to do so now for two generations.

Many people say that 90 is a generation that has been destroyed. In fact, no matter whether it is 80 or 90, or 00 that is taking over, we are not defeated. Instead, we support hope, carry the past, and connect the future.

The previous generation worked hard, mostly for survival. Our generation has worked hard to basically solve the problem of survival and began chasing life. The harder we work, the closer our people are to life and the more they live.

Long Yingtai once wrote a passage to his son Andre: Children, I ask you to study hard, not because I want you to compare with others, but because I hope that you will have the right to choose in the future. The work of time is not forced to make a living. When your work is meaningful in your mind, you have a sense of accomplishment. When your work gives you time and does not take away your life, you have dignity. A sense of accomplishment and dignity give you happiness.

In the same way, today’s efforts are precisely in the hope that they will have the right to choose in the future. Children have the right to choose.

With hard work, life will become a multiple-choice question. mutual encouragement!